4 Things You Should NOT Do During the Divorce Process

4 Things You Should NOT Do During the Divorce Process

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This episode contains some lessons that many people learn as they go through a divorce. Here are four things to avoid as you go through the divorce process:   Don’t do anything shady. Don’t believe your ex-spouse about what is going on in your divorce. Don’t be oblivious about what is going on in your marriage and family. Consult an attorney for either your whole case or on a limited basis.   Some people try to get away with suspicious activity when going through a divorce. One of the most common examples is moving sums of money around or trying to hide assets. They may try to adjust their income in an effort to pay less support later. Avoid doing these things. It will probably come back to haunt you.   If you have not been in the loop with regards to the marital finances, you may still have a sense that there is something odd going on with your spouse. If you were the primary earner in the marriage, you may think you are being clever by hiding money, but your spouse is probably not oblivious to what you are doing. When you have been married to someone for a long time, they will probably know if something is out of the ordinary. Suspicious actions can come back to hurt you later. Don’t do anything out of the ordinary, because it can hurt you later.   Some people are coming from a relationship where there was an imbalance of power. Maybe your spouse was in charge of more things in the household and was more dominant in the relationship. They may be making threats about custody or keeping assets from you. Any time you hear threats from your soon-to-be-ex-spouse, you should ignore them, aside from communicating them to your attorney. Spouses can say a lot of things to try to scare you. Just understand that there are laws to ensure a decent outcome for both parties. Your spouse’s threats are likely to be empty.    As soon as you know that divorce may be in the near future, you need to take control of your life. Get your credit report. Make sure you know about all of your credit cards, retirement accounts, and any other debts or assets. Gather up important documents like your estate plan and your will. Be aware of your expenses and what it costs to maintain your lifestyle. You need to take control of every area of your life. Your attorney will not figure everything out for you. You cannot ignore this and hope it will go away.   Some people try to pursue a divorce themselves, without an attorney. This usually happens when the divorce is mostly amicable and they can reach an agreement on most of the issues in the divorce. However, it is important to ensure that whatever settlement you reach will make sense for the both of you. If you end up doing something that’s far outside the bounds of the law for your state, you may not be making the best deal. You also could be missing a large element of your divorce. There are regulations for some aspects of divorce, like custody agreements, that you need to be familiar with. It’s a good idea to consult an attorney to make sure your settlement is within bounds. Even if you are an attorney in another area of the law, you are probably not equipped to handle family law.   Before you go, visit divorceandyourmoney.com: 1) Sign up for the email list to get exclusive tips you won’t find anywhere else. 2) To get access to the best divorce resources in the United States, check out the store here. 3) Get personalized help. Learn about coaching services here.   Thank you for listening!

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  1. Can somebody comment and help? I am divorcing my wife. Have a lovely daughter. The most disturbing thing about this divorce is the fact that my daughter will be raised by another man. It seema that I will get the custody of my daughter but again if my ex marries another man there will be another guy in my daughter’s life. And all these things disturbe me very badly. What do you suggest? How can I overcome this feeling? What should I do?

  2. I totally agree about being aware of what’s going going around. My ex-husband moved large huge massive sums of money into an IRA. My attorney supposedly did it Discovery and didn’t discover anything. later on I found all the money’s, checks business information everything and she started talking about latches. What should I do this it’s been a long time he’s been stealing this. money for many years and I never knew it now he has it in an IRA and has retired. He is 7 years older and I can’t retire because he stole half the money. What should I do? My divorce was Final in 2006 and it took a year-and-a-half to complete. Please help me because my attorney seems like she was representing him. She kept telling me he won’t give you money for the rest of your life he won’t do it he won’t this he won’t that. I said if you’re not my attorney give back my money then she started working for me oh, but it ended in disaster because he had all that money stolen and if we never discovered it until it was too late or is it too late

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  5. Strange things going on indeed. Hidden back accounts, credit cards run up to 15k and moving money around like a mobster. Cannot wait to drop the hammer. Shady gains.

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  18. I have a question my parents got divorced in 1995. I got a hold of the divorce decree but its no settlement agreement. Do I get the settlement agreement from a different court or does that mean they didn’t do a settlement or any custodial agreement through the courts. Also if they didnt do a settlement agreement would that be considered automatic joint custody at the time. I was born in wedlock.

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