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Our Love Story:
How many children do you wish to have?
What is your timeline for having children?
Have there been any marriages you’ve witnessed that shape your view of marriage, either positively or negatively?
Is being close to extended family important to you?
What are your political priorities and hot-button issues that you are passionate about?
What are the things your parents did well that you want to replicate in your marriage – and not-so-well that you wish to avoid in your marriage?
How do you view the role and parameters of OUR parents in our relationship and with any future children we would have?
Do you have debt? How much? Do you have savings? How much?
What is your credit score?
What are your financial priorities and do you want to have a joint bank account or separate bank accounts?
Who do you expect to handle the actual act of paying bills?
How much do you foresee it being ok to spend without consulting your spouse?
What is your plan for home security? Are you ok with having guns in the house?
Do you expect your wife to be a stay at home mom? Would you be ok with me working, even if we have children?
How will holidays look with our families?
What customs or traditions do you want to include in your marriage/family, especially if these are from childhood?
Where do you want to live?
Would you ever be okay with moving?
What is your relationship with your father like?
What do you think about fatherhood and what are your expectations for it?
What kind of parent do you hope to be?
How are you planning on providing for your family?
How are you going to educate your children? i.e. Public vs. private school?
What faith do you wish to raise your children in?
How do you view NFP? Is it something you are willing to practice forever and always?
What are your health/eating habits?
Has sexual intimacy been a part of your previous relationships?
What do you want to do if we can’t have children?
How did your previous relationships end?
Have you ever cheated on someone?
Have you ever been violent toward a past girlfriend or to anyone in your life?
How was conflict handled in your house growing up and what kinds of things would create conflict?
In regards to truth or difficult situations – Were things buried? Were things confronted?
Were there things or topics that were not talked allowed to be talked about in your house?
(This is if his mother is living and a part of his life) If I ever express to you that your mother does something to upset me, crosses boundaries that we set for her, is being overbearing upon me or our potential children, what would you do?
How did your parents treat you and your siblings? Was there abuse?
How do you like to be supported?
Do you use pornography or engage in masturbation? How often?
How do you manage your emotions? Are you good at understanding them? Do you suppress them or bottle them up?
How will we deal with aging or ill parents? Is there an expectation that they will ever live with us?
What are your specific expectations when it comes to household chores and housework, cooking, cleaning, etc?
Are you open to going to couples counseling before and/or during marriage, not only to identify problems, but to learn about how we can communicate most fruitfully?
What do you expect of a spouse in times of sickness or suffering?
What is your view on vacations – would we take them, how often?
Describe to me in your own words what it means to have a personal relationship with Christ and how do cultivate your own with Him?
When God’s word says to love your wife as Christ loves the Church, please explain what this means to you.
What would you do if your child had a disability?
What is your love language?
What are the expectations for us having friends of the opposite gender?
What is your life goal/at the end of your life what do you hope to have accomplished?