1. It’s the lie that she told me about me being a stone waller, which I initially bought but then realized she had someone at work hahaha.. I’m such a sucker.. Fuck it though, I’m getting my life back

  2. My wife and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when she got a new Job in NewYork months ago, we have been in a long distance relationship for some months,She has been avoiding my calls and i got suspicious of her cheating.I asked my wife about it and she told me that she is always busy and working ,We had a big argument about it,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James a PI/Hacker  who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my wife’s Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my wife’s phone. where i found so many evidence and  proof in her Text messages, Emails and pictures that my wife has an affair with her co-worker. I have sent all the evidence to my lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof for my lawyer, You can contact him on Gmail (Worldcyberhackers ) or WhatsApp +12678773020 ,I Feel so sad about infidelity’

  3. Soul crushed. Heart gutted. Humiliation. Shame. Guilt. It’s a blessing to me. If I can be hurt by a person and have these horrible thoughts about myself means I have zero faith in my God. I’m experiencing this right now, this post is a moment of clarity bc of this video. When you’ve overcome, you can help others. Doesn’t matter how dark the journey is you came back

  4. Thanks for sharing. As we enter 2021 I need to keep moving forward. After horrific betrayal during UK lockdown after 17 years of marriage. I have 2 small kids. I’m determined not to let this form my identity

  5. Men, do not hesitate to place a restraining order on your partner if you feel your health and safety is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was the single best (albeit unfortunate but absolutely necessary) act of my adult life. The US is unfortunately at the mercy of a system biased AGAINST men. Watch out… stay safe and healthy and trust your instincts… before you know it… you’re just another casualty in the system.

  6. I am thankful for your video. I am really have a hard time with the loss of my marriage. I wonder if I will ever heal again.

  7. I really enjoyed this video, thank you so much. A lot of your realizations speak to me, it’s like you’re speaking for me but I didn’t realize these things yet. I was suffering from terminal uniqueness I think. Thank you 🙂

  8. My husband left me after 40 years of marriage and he places the blame on me when I know that he is the one that quit. We never argued but did grow apart. I am still grieving and praying to move on

  9. Thanks Lisa. That he was a coward line hit me different! I didn’t look at my divorce that way. She had the affair and I was left in the same situation as you were. She was a coward and I will do it the correct way for my daughter’s! This video helped so thank you taking the time to make it. Take care.

  10. You look like J-Lo. Thank you. I’m going through something similar and looking for answers obviously or I wouldn’t have found your video. So it’s reaching people.

  11. Girl, you gorgeous. You’re bright, smart, caring *AND* so so so brave!

    If you haven’t already gotten one or three, I’m sure men will be lining up to be with you as soon as you’re ready if you’re still into them or whatever. Plenty are really good, nice, normal men.

    Your ex was twisted. There was no way you could have known what he was actively working to hide from you.

  12. This video is amazing. Everything she says applied to my situation. It sounds like her divorce was a nightmare I can’t even imagine. But the lessons are exactly what I needed to hear today about my situation. Lisa, thank you. You changed someone’s mind today. I hope my learned lessons stick in this tough time!

  13. I love what you said about understanding and closure. And then letting go. Good job! And I am proud of you and what you shared. Thank you.

  14. If someone walks out on you LET THEM GO . If they were for you they would not have walked out this can be a blessing . I’m going through the same thing , 20 years of marriage , the pain is hard , it’s slowly passing. I stay focus on my life , do not look back . Heal , heal , heal and pray don’t jump into a relationship too quickly. Or you will feel worse .

  15. Imagine your wife accusing you of trying to kill your kids burying your kids alive abusing her all that was a pure lies. Now she’s making $3519 a month on me temporarily until the real divorce, then the judge told her I can only see my kids once a month but after the trial she give me my kids three times a week to sleep over my house and my 2 kids grades was A now they’re missing school and very bad grades.

  16. She was at the house last night to grab some stuff then she left. After 19 years it will likely be the last time I ever see her. It’s f’n hard to believe. I left my job yesterday, I signed over the house to her today, and I’m moving 1800 miles away tomorrow morning. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but it needs to be done. For 4 months I feel like I’ve been shrinking and being continually pushed into a funnel…….but starting tomorrow I will start to come out the other side. I’m exhausted both physically, mentally and emotionally. I’m ready to push forward….it’s the only way.
    Stand up straight, push your shoulders back and tell yourself you will not be defined by a divorce. There is life after this setback. Go out there and live it!

  17. You’ve said everything i am being through now
    I feel frozen in my place and even though i know things will change…
    I am still very weak and in pain…

  18. 54 yrs married & dated since 7th grade and married after 1st year of college..He Retired after 40 yrs but then he wanted to be free??? I stated Theres’ the door…its been 15 months, divorce after 6month. Property settlement in progress he’s not happy as he wants home we built 34 yrs ago. Not staring over @ my age 72Yrs. I’m not moving 50 yrs of things. Period…

  19. Lisa, great, honest, and courageous video. You are a smart and beautiful woman, I am sure you will be ok after the divorce. I wish you all the best! He was a loser that dis not deserve you.

  20. Right now I’m dealing with the never going to understand thing. Sometimes I’m on board with it but sometimes I still bang my head against the wall!!

  21. Thank you so much for posting/sharing. You have no idea how much your video helped me. God bless you 🙏

  22. Man… I was with my husband for 4 years we got married this year in August and we have 2 children… he’s leaving me for another woman he say it’s too “draining” to continue to love me. He says he’s made up his mind he doesn’t want me anymore… this really hurt and it sucks. I really did love that man regardless of what we went through

  23. Fairness does not exist. Dont expect it. There is real and what most call fair. Expecting fairness of rules brings heartache and outrage. Then pity party. You set yourself up by your fantasy that you set.

  24. u r so pretty. still stalked !! ? shocking. u dont need to. an ugly duckling like me doing it. would have still been something i can digest

  25. Maybe I’m still in the early stages but I’ll take him getting done half as bad by whoever and me winning the lotto 😏 that’ll balance my scale just fine

  26. Not avoiding feeling the pain and hurt is paramount in healing. It took years for me not to give in to my emotions and what they were first telling me. Thanks for the video!

  27. Oh how I needed this. I am doing all those things you described. My court date is December 28th, 2020 and coming out of a 12 year marriage.

  28. Divorce is all new to me and I’m slowly losing myself but these videos I’ve been watching are helping

  29. I really want to say thank you. I got married very young and divorced very young. I really don’t know how I should face future life with the identity of a divorced woman. Besides, my ex-husband hurt me deeply, and I don’t know if I can trust anyone anymore. Thank you for saying that what happens one day or during a specific period doesn’t affect my whole life. Thank you for saying I at least have a life.

  30. Thank You Very Much for this. The Wedding Vows are so Simple if kept and followed(Basic Promises) but The Cheaters never do in the end unfortunatly. 25 years together and helping support her and her nusing school training she cheats with a Handyman (9 months) in our home, office and forces me out of the house and gives me a minimal check for equity now she’s on her second guy . You are right when you say I would never have done that to her and if I did she would have known that same day not 9 months later. We still share a Family pet and I have maintained a good relationship with her Mother and the former but it’s only by God’s grace and strength because this has been the most hurtful and unbelivable thing that I have ever gone through.

  31. No one really deserves to be cheated upon and I believe smartness is important in any relationship, my worst experience was discovering my cheating Narcissist husband through the help of an hacker who helped cloned his cell and i got access to all his Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Messenger,imo , Snapchat, Instagram, Skype, Twitter, Email and Social media chat, i was able to read both his new and deleted messages without touching his mobile . I was hurt when i read conversation of my husband always sex chatting with other ladies, i felt so broken, I’m here in California , USA and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in UK i got all the proofs i needed for divorce and even terrible things they had planned. He also does hacking of account of any other type of hacking and retrieval of data. His services are trusted and guaranteed and also affordable contact him on his mobile phone, text,whats-app +17202954268 or email ultimatehack003(at)gmail com . I hope you find peace just like me

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