An Alternative to Painful Divorce, How to Consciously Uncouple | Vishen Lakhiani

An Alternative to Painful Divorce, How to Consciously Uncouple | Vishen Lakhiani

How do you end a relationship on good terms? It is undoubtedly a question that has plagued the minds of many. The end of a romantic relationship however doesn’t necessarily mean pain and suffering ensues, with human consciousness evolving so is the way we deal with life’s challenges.

In this talk from Mindvalley Reunion 2019, Vishen Lakhiani discusses the alternative couples have when they decide together that the relationship has come to an end.

After 19 years together Vishen and his wife decided to consciously uncouple and divorce. They also chose to redefine divorce. Divorce, a word that creates so much negative emotion in so many. Rather than a usual divorce they went through the Conscious Uncoupling process, the method popularised in Katherine Woodward Thomas’ book of the same name. In this video, Vishen lays himself raw and open like never before to talk about facing this moment in his life.

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50 Comments

  1. So, in my opinion…. "Conscious Uncoupling" means, to jump from one illusion to another… And… May also mean to be in open marriage… More traumatic… Man….!

  2. Whew. Have just told my husband of 19 years that I want to divorce. I send him this video but he’s like I am not interested in these things. Divorce is divorce ;(
    Can only one person in a marriage consciously uncouple?

  3. The problem is the kids won’t see it in your perspective. When his five year old is fifteen and sees her stepbrothers and sisters living with both parents, if Vishen remarries, she will feel abandoned. I once had a boyfriend who used to say "my dad and his family" or "my mum and her family". It was never "our family". I asked him why and he would say step parents will always love their kids more than you no matter how hard you try. His biggest weakness was he tried to please everyone and did everything they asked him including ridiculous things. His best friend told him to cut them lose and live his own life. It was sad but sometimes you’ve got to let people build their new lives alone.

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  6. Seems like a healthy way to end your marriage (the legal bond). But what bothered me is when you kept saying that you wanted to celebrate your “Last Valentines Day!” VD signifying a day for love and affection, is a day that can be celebrated with family and friends. Especially when you are saying that you will stay best friends for ever. So in a way aren’t you limiting ur beliefs based on pre-existing cultural beliefs that you are trying to break out off? Instead you should have denoted that particular VD as a day to empower your love and affection for each in new ways that the world has yet to experience. XO.

  7. My marriage is ending and it’s very hard for me because I still wanted to try and work out our issues however I understand it takes 2 and so I want us to be friends and transition well like this

  8. wow! Kristina Mänd you are strong and wise. My support to you. Looking at your body how you hold and control yourself – requires a lot of inner strength. I feel you. My support to you. Although your micro mimics telling something else when your voice and words – you are a beautiful soul, who is choosing universal love over something that our ego will never understand. I hope, Vishen Lakhiani someday you will lose the shine outfit of motivational business and find our unconscious world in truth. Playing this game in the "ego economy" has an end-date time for all of us: either you truly see the nothingness and unity, o will die not knowing. Still, at least with your way people, who would be still in the plastic world finding the door to the next step in their life, so in a way, we are all useful in this earth in our unique ways :)) Best of luck to you both! Love, Simona

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  10. That is so beautiful, I cried through the video. I feel so sad that such a beautiful story and wonderful union is not mean to last forever. Thank you for sharing, there is a lot to learn. Letting go each other beautifully with respect is an art, hard internal work and worth learning.

  11. I just love how genuine he is..and pure minded..both of them ofcourse! I too have Aspergers..and have ended a 1.5 year long relationship on a happy note just like this.. being 21 year old..I find myself soo much in sync based on what he said..
    I am aiming for getting to Mindvalley and just LOVE ALL SERVE ALL .. bringing impact planing the role that universe wants me to💖

  12. ☝️☝️📩 For everyone going through relationship problems, don’t give up. you can still get your ex back. Look, my husband came back after 2 months of leaving our house. All thanks to *DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* is a powerful spiritual man..

  13. I has always felt bit never spoke about : I ALWAYS felt "Marriage" was a human construct, exactly as you say but never would speak of it bc , you could just imagine the backlash. So ty for saying for me .

  14. Ну правильно, как только жена постарела, мужик сделал ноги… и теперь пытается вылезти сухим из воды… нашел объяснение…разочарована в нем…🤢

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  16. These are spells cast to work out problems that are surrounding a romantic relationship. Therefore if you are having problems in your relationship or marriage these are spells that will work for you.
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    Death spell to Kill or distroy someone.
    White magic love spells
    Commitment love spells
    Love spells for cheaters
    Attraction love spells
    Stop divorce and separation spell
    Binding love spells
    And many other spells whose cast with intentions of solving love problems

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  17. Am I the only one that thinks this is a big load of BS!!!! My ex cheated on my with a friend… There is no way we will ever be friends or co-parent… Unfortunately these are the hard truths of life.. It is sad to for a marriage to end and you should moron that… Sorry just my opinion, I guess it works for others but not for me

  18. will never stop being grateful to DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL caster who helped me with Facebook spell casting that brought my ex back

  19. I will never stop being grateful to *DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* caster who helped me with Facebook spell casting that brought my ex back.

  20. Ultimately happened from a selfish “pseudo ambitious fake feminist jealous wife about her husband’s success! He will get screwed now for a while and eventually meet a lucky woman. The fake feminism movement has ruined our society and kids!

  21. People are NOT possessions. Vishen is so great because he knows that. I divorced. I left my narcissistic psychopathic xhusband in 1998. Other people tried to force me to go back to him. I went back to him briefly making it abundantly clear I only did so to be next to the kids. I left him again quickly. I did all the legal work on my own to get the divorce. It was a complete nightmare. That man would not leave me alone. I started listening to Vishen and watching him and his people again. I am happy, single and looking for someone new. Thanks Vishen for your support. I received a video on business. I just launched my own affiliate marketing business recently. How did you know? 🤔 Algorithms are great!

  22. I was wondering if this approach could be used on grief e.g. death of a loved one. Or ending a painful parent-child relationship

  23. Why ? Why piller of love collapse ,how? Until someone else come into your life and you less intersted in your partner . Nice wordplay !!! Your words not justifying with reality !!! "Love in different way ,much better friends " no no no why ! The reality may destroy your images, which is a major role in bothof you lifes . You guys stop discussing these telling lies . If have courage tell us who cheated whom first . Recently Amir khan did the same 🤣 👍

  24. I will never stop being grateful to *DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* caster who helped me with Facebook spell casting that brought my ex back.

  25. Instead of working on a conscious separation, they should work on strengthening their marriage. Justifying something doubles it.

  26. He gives me vibes of Dismissive avoidant DA ENTJ, love avoidant and his wife is all about prioritising love relationship and it’s the wife who leave out of built up resentment. The dismissive avoidant entj go ahead in career as they put work first and wife maybe infp who put love relationship first. Relationship brings out the deep childhood core wounds and not everyone can patiently sit and heal in couple counselling. People also learn from the mistakes of their first marriage. Relational healing is very very different from individual healing and mindfulness.

  27. I will never stop being grateful to *DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* caster who helped me with Facebook spell casting that brought my ex back.

  28. ☝️☝️📩 For everyone going through relationship problems, don’t give up. you can still get your ex back. Look, my husband came back after 2 months of leaving our house. All thanks to *DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* is a powerful spiritual man..

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