CHILD CUSTODY For Fathers | 5 ACTIONS You MUST Take

CHILD CUSTODY For Fathers | 5 ACTIONS You MUST Take

DADs GOING THROUGH A CUSTODY BATTLE
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Child custody is never something to take lightly. As a man the cards are stacked against you. Divorce court and divorce mediation is something that generally favors women. Take these 5 actions and it will pay off your you and your children in the long run.

Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach in Austin Texas. He is a BJJ & Wujifa Practitioner and father of 4.

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50 Comments

  1. I’m a unicorn. But after 8 years of primary custody she trying to say I’m emotionally abusing my son and we are going back to court.

  2. I have 45 waking hours, she has 20 hrs, hands on time, over 2 weeks, excluding school and sleep hours. Do i have a chance? 50/50 after devorce

  3. I’m writing to this because these things happen to women to. Every-time I look up stuff about my case, it is usually men in this situation and the kids hate the dad. Now they will never trust him again. My kids will suffer from this for a very long time.

    My ex and I have been doing everything without court since 2010. Except for child support. We split up when the girls were babies. I had to get child support because he wouldn’t help me when I would ask for it. It started out only giving me $25 per week for 2 kids. He later got a better job and I don’t think he had ever reported to them because when I petitioned for more, it jumped all the way up to 550/month. He had gotten away with working and making all the overtime and only having to very small amount for at least a year. Which isn’t enough either. Especially now. But he had just lost that job and was on disability so he wasn’t even able to pay me for a while. I had them 5 days a week and him the weekend. When I handed them over for the weekend, I never would have thought I wouldn’t see them for months. He filed a lawsuit for custody filled with vague bs. I haven’t seen my kids in over 3 months because he’s withholding them…hoping he can get it to the point that the judge wouldn’t want to take them out of there. But I don’t think that will happen. This is the most devastating thing besides kicking me out of OUR rental home. And I couldn’t get back in because he had the landlord give him a copy of the lease without my name on it. Then he had me go live with this girls he had prior slept with, which I didn’t know till later. She went psycho and kicked me out for absolutely no reason. I think the my ex and that girl set it up to fail because right after that, he got emergency temporary custody. because then I was homeless with no car. He set it up to where I was only allowed there to be our kids while he worked. Now he is using the custody order to say that my parental rights are taken away, which they never were. It’s all about him not wanting to pay child support. I can’t think of any other real reason. They were failing, but it was because COVID and many kids are failing. Not enough to hold them from me. I missed Easter with them and soon it will be Mother’s Day and he has no intentions of letting me seen them. Btw his wife is the one who is with them most of the time. So he would have never done this without a wife, because he never cared. It’s always selfish reasons.

  4. Gentlemen just remember one statistic after my personal 5 yr court battle to get custody. (and i still don’t have it). 86%-91% of the time nationwide women get sole or primary physical custody.
    Remember that stat before you start paying for lawyers.

  5. Hey this is great. I feel all men have such a disadvantage as soon as the babies born. It’s sad and can be depressing but with a group like MD EX I feel it can help rebuild the fire within. Keep up the positivity, it’s good to know there’s a group like y’all out there.

  6. *** Learn how to win WITHOUT a lawyer ***
    Go to this page —> https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdIKh4KkAAgPi0Gz0bGXtXg
    Hashtag #HowiGotCustody
    Here’s proof of my last big win…. a reversal in Court of Appeals after I beat up on a 50-year experienced attorney Donald Wayne Ferrell:
    https://law.justia.com/cases/washington/court-of-appeals-division-i/2012/66701-7.html

    The guy who made this video is a lying dumbazz POS and wants you to waste your money on CROOK LAWYERS.
    DONT’ BELIEVE ME? Watch this trailer for "Divorce Corp" also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GkLUwHV0FTI

    This punk azz bee-otch wants you to blow all your money…just cuz he’s too stupid to do any research.

  7. 50/50 is not every other weekend. In my case it was more like 70/30, I was the 30 with full child support.

  8. Typo in description
    Email me – steve@thesexuallife.com

    I get emails daily from this video. I am no attorney but the story of man is what I live and facilitate in my groups.
    Hopefully we can help each other!

  9. 100 years ago, crazy woman were put in institutions, which I’m sure some of them deserved to be there. But in today’s society, courts give custody to unemployed bi-polar adulterous alcoholic psychopaths! Father’s need support in today’s crazy fcked up world. #FathersRightsMatter

  10. Slick video, good advice, nearly lost me when that blog stuff kicked in un announced, well done vid.

  11. When selecting an attorney, join a menns group and ask around which attorneys are good. Also, ask the child protection agency about their short list of attorneys with a good focus on children. they love that and will often give you the list even though you are a father/man. Also, it makes dealing with cpa better when the mother begins with her character assassination and false accusations of child/spousal abuse. Make no mistake, the court knows exactly which attorneys are good for the children and which attorneys are there for the mother to win, and they hate the latter. You want to enter the court room which that extra bonus point. Document everything and digitally record everything, so that you can counter false allegations and convince the court and cpa about the factual situation.

  12. URGENT PASS THIS INFORMATION ON TO EVERYBODY AND ANYBODY, IT IS A VIOLATION OF THE FIRST AMENDMENT, FREEDOM OF RELIGIOUS EXPRESSION. TO BE FORCED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT, OR LOOSE YOUR PROFESSIONAL LICENSES, NOT BE ABLE TO GET A PASSPORT, TO HOARD ON YOUR PROPERTY, MAKE YOU REPLACE A PERFECTLY GOOD ROOF ON YOUR HOUSE THAT JUST MERELY LOOKS BAD FOR INSURANCE PURPOSES ETC. ETC. ETC.

    TO :
    Susan Hill
    Associate Insurance Compliance Officer
    California Department of Insurance, ALL U.S. GOVERMENTAL OFFICES, U.S. CITIZENS, AND TO ANY AND ALL WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

    In response to your letter, dated May 14, 2021, FILE NO. RUS-8297593

    As stated previously many times TO YOUR OFFICE this is a CONTINUUM of the HARASMENT AND VIOLATION OF THE FIRST AMENDMENT BY MERCURY INSURANCE. WHICH AGAIN AS PREVIOUSLY STATED I AM ALSO A STOCK HOLDER OF SAID COMPANY. ALLOW ME TO AGAIN EXPLAIN THIS ELEMENTRY CONSTITUTIONAL FIRST AMENDMENT, AS I HAVE EXPLAINED IT IN PRIOR COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR OFFICE SEVERAL TIMES PREVIOUSLY, WHICH YOU HAVE PREVIOUSLY AGREED WITH. NOW YOU WANT TO TRY AND REVERSE YOUR STANCE ON THIS ISSUE, WHICH IS NOT LEGALLY POSSIBLE. THE FIRST AMENDMENT STATES

    " The First Amendment GUARANTEES FREEDOMS concerning religion, EXPRESSION, assembly, and the right to petition. It forbids Congress from both promoting one religion over others and also RESTRICTING AN INDIVIDUAL’S RELIGIOUS PRACTICES. It guarantees freedom of expression by prohibiting Congress from restricting the press or the rights of individuals to speak freely. It also guarantees the right of citizens to assemble peaceably and to petition their government."

    AS STATED PREVIOUSLY TO YOUR OFFICE MANY MANY TIMES, AND MERCURY INSURANCE, ANY AND ALL PROPERTY REAL OR PERSONAL CANNOT BE MOVED FOR RELIGIOUS BELIEFS AND EXPRESSION, NOT LIMITED TO AND INCLUDING, WHAT YOU OR MERCURY INSURANCE CALLS DEBRIS / CLUTTER, ROOFING MATERIALS ON TOP OF THE HOUSE!!!

    LET ME STATE THIS AGAIN FOR EMPHASIS, IT IS A VIOLATION OF MY, FAMILIES, AND EVERY AMERICAN"S FIRST AMENDMENT RIGHTS!!! AS STATED BY THE SUPREME COURT, TIME AFTER TIME AFTER TIME!!!

    I WILL ALSO STATE THAT CHILD SUPPORT IS ALSO AND ALWAYS WAS A VIOLATION OF THE FIRST AMENDMENT, AND NEVER SHOULD HAVE BEEN MADE A LAW!!! JUST BECAUSE YOU CHANGE THE WORDING AS SUCH TO SUIT YOUR PURPOSE, DOES NOT MAKE IT LEGAL, EVERY ASPECT OF CHILD SUPPORT IS ILLEGAL, RIGHT DOWN TO THE FAKE COURT ORDERS, THAT ARE NOT EVEN WORTH THE PAPER THEY ARE WRITTEN ON!!! IF PEOPLE WOULD JUST STAND UP FOR THEIR RIGHTS, AS I HAVE AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO!!! CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT MY RELIGIOUS BELIEF, IN FACT RELIGION DOESN’T EVEN HAVE TO BE BROUGHT IN, BECAUSE ATHEIST’S ARE ALSO COVERED UNDER THE FIRST AMENDMENT!!!

    I WILL CONTINUE TO INFORM, YOU, AND EVERY AMERICAN TO STAND UP FOR THEIR RIGHTS, WHICH IS NOW WHY YOU WANT TO TRY AND CHANGE YOUR STANCE ON THIS ISSUE. APPARENTLY, YOU MUST HAVE BEEN LOBBIED, OR GIVEN COMPENSATION FOR YOUR WANTING TO CHANGE YOUR STANCE ON THIS ISSUE!!! WHICH IS ILEGAL. THIS HAS ALREADY BEEN DECIDED, BY THE SUPREME COURT OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!!

    AS STATED PREVIOUSLY, MANY MANY TIMES, YOUR OFFICE AND MERCURY INSURANCE IS PUT ON LEGAL NOTICE!!! I WILL USE ANY AND ALL AVENUES TO PROMOTE, ADVERTISE, AND BRING PUBLIC AWARENESS TO THESE ISSUES, WHICH IS WHAT YOU DON’T WANT, AND THAT IS ALSO ANOTHER REASON WHY YOU ARE TRYING TO ILLEGALLY CHANGE YOUR STANCE!!!

    SINCERELY, E. GONZALEZ

  13. What if you had a son that’s been with you over six months now and have not heard from the mother in over a month no contact no call she doesn’t even try do you think I have the right to file for full custody?

  14. lol i reported my wife for domestic valiance’s against me. and I she responded with a fabricated lies/ evidence to family court .. lost custody!!

  15. I’m going through a lot right now and this video is really helping me.. and giving me faith that I’ll see my daughter soon.. I need more brothers like you man.. I feel so alone I don’t have nobody ..

  16. I’m going through a custody battle and I was primary caregiver because mom got caught drinking with my 16 yr old at the time.. came to me infested in lice, bruises and so emotionally drained… We went to court and the judge put the kids back in her care until our Pre trial but she broke her court order every weekend and started missing days and started taking time away from me but my biggest fall was keeping them for their own safety because she got a court order from a judge but I am returning them, but this is my problem because I was told I can protect them if they’re deemed in danger

  17. I’m a step mom who unfortunately has to watch my partner in a tough situation where his Baby mother does not let him see his daughter! He is a very hard working man! Financially stable, and cares for that little girl in the best possible ways. We’re in the process of beginning to fight custody but we’re scared of not getting what we know is best for that beautiful little girl.

  18. Hello Steve my name jose im going threw a separation with my wife and i have a 1 year old im 29 i live in tx i kneed some .ore advise. She left me cause she didnt wanna be told wat to do she blames me for being too angry or controlling i work 2 jobs and she dose his slack around im in a processes of talking too attorneys in dallas. Too get full custody of my bby. What shud i do anything will help

  19. Dude its very hard to listen when u have that damn music in the background louder then you…

  20. I love your content and how you push to have the best interest of the child first! I also like how you encourage the man to stay calm. I did want to mention that “every other weekend” is a 80/20 timeshare. If both parents are truly equally fit, 50/50 is what they should strive for and what is fair. That’s the only bit of info I feel was not communicated properly.

  21. Horrible advice. Basically telling you to give up. You shouldn’t even need a attorney to get every other weekend. In the state I live in there’s a chance to actually get realistic 50/50

  22. It seems like custody arrangements are practically rubber stamped in the mothers favor. Just got papers that she wants me to have her every other weekend. She is going to miss her father so much.. It makes my heart hurt.

  23. What if I have money, have a business, I am moderately wealthy and live in Massachusetts? What are my odds?

  24. Leave women alone and let them raise the children. Dead beat father’s trying to avoid child support. Let these women be and stop sticking your d in where your not supposed to

  25. What if my baby momma just got hit with a cps case ? The cps officer let my daughter stay with me instead of foster care. But told me to file for full custody ASAP. Any advice ?? I really don’t have money for a lawyer at the moment

  26. I’m a single dad but I couldn’t feel less like a dad. My daughter was born last October and the mom and I were never together, more or less a one night stand. She’s keeping me from my daughter every way she can and it’s been well over half a year since I’ve seen my daughter. I’m going through the legal process now of trying to get into her life and it’s honestly taking it’s toll. I have no one to vent to about it that truly understands because my parents were together the majority of my life. And while I feel I know what I like and who I am without her it’s the fact I don’t know the person I can be with my daughter. I feel like I’m missing her grow up and time is flying. Just needed a vent. Don’t know how else to get it out

  27. The music was terrible in the background. I bet any one who saw this video got really stressed. You should put calming music or no music due to the subject.

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