Thank you so much for sharing your story!!
I was married for 24 years
I been divorced for one year now four kids!!!it’s been difficult for me
But I am getting better each and every day
It’s been very depressing but I am getting stronger
Just want to say thank you
Your video really help me to give another step forward
Happy new year !!!!
God bless you 😘
I really needed this. Thank you for sharing! 20 years married to my high school sweetheart and he decided he doesn’t want to be with me. I have kids in sports and just began a new career, so I really related to this video.
Thank you for your video. My husband has just told me that he is planning to start the process of divorce after 22 years of marriage because he wants to start his life with a new page. So far I am just crying and feeling like my life is over … I don’t have any family or friends in this country. We have 2 kids and they are everything to me. One is 20 and my second daughter is 12, I am so afraid that I am not going to see her everyday. Your video gave me some hope.
I am going through divorce after 21 years of marriage. I found out his 12 years of double life with his female colleague . I still tried to work but I just couldn’t deal with his continues adultery. I am separated for last 4 months and have been not talking to him last 2 years before I got separate. It is very hard as he was my world and I was nobody to him. I asked for divorce. He hurt me physically, emotionally and verbally and he has no remorse for what he did to me. Now I am 44 and I am lost as I was stay at home mom for 16 years. He asked me to look after kids so I didn’t think about making my career but I started working couple of years back . It s a decent job, I don’t make much but he is hurting me financially, emotionally and every way. I feel very depressed but I don’t have any family. Now I see my kids half the time . It’s feel so hard that he is having good time at the cost of my pain without no remorse for spoiling my life.
I want to know how to deal with this much pain when you feel so broken. I feel like I have nothing left in this life for me. I am trying but still not able to move on . I don’t know how to get myself out of this anger, resentments, depression.
Hi Henrietta… ty for this video. I am 53 I’ve been with my husband for 34 years. I met him when I was 15. I don’t know anything else I feel the same way u felt. I am so unhappy. He continues to disrespect me and accusing me of things that I’m not doing. I’m very scared and I don’t know what to do or where to start.
Thank you for you story. I’m in the middle of ending a 21 year relationship and I know it will get better but hearing your story makes my decision easier.
Can you do more videos. Place your phone on a stand so we can see all your face. Sit in the middle. You are very pretty and motivating. I would like to see more videos
God has to be everything. The right man. Jesus is my reason for life. Then my wonderful husband. With the right husband you can do great things. The devil lie to him.
When youve got 5 kids to raise u dont have time to grieve u just live one day at a time and i know your always tired and dont know what day it is sometimes…..u just keep keepin on!
Wow Henrieta!! You are so strong 💪and an amazing example to your children. It’s very hard not to be consumed with hate and depression but your focusing on your children and the positive is going to be the best gift for them and their futures and happiness. They will thank you when they are grown.
Thank you so much…it was only three years for me..And my heart is hurting..I never got married however it felt like one..It took me 7 years foe me to even open up to sme1…If you can get threw this i know i can…
We’ve just ended our 20 year relationship, been with him since I was 14, I’m sorry so many of you have experienced this too but I’m also grateful I’m not alone, wow its not easy is it guys 😭 spent most of my life with him 😩 I can do this though
I’m just curious about a few things: 1 – Why did he leave after 20 years while you were pregnant? That doesn’t just happen out of the blue AND you saying you don’t know why. Seems like your simply not being forthcoming.
Thank you for sharing your story. You have such a sweet soul. You are so positive after being through so much. Keep pushing! He definitely lost a winner.
What a great happiness to me and my relationship I was in relationship for 8 good year’s no sex with my lover so my lover decide to leave me and follow another woman so we break up for 1 month when I came across with this man called *babamama* on facebook I explain everything to him.when he just tell me to wait for 2 hours so I wait after waiting my lover just called me and started apologize to me everything he did so if you need help you can also reach him on his.
I’m so happy I found your vid. My wife and I are separating after 15yrs and 3 kids. It’s def not something I want, but I can’t change someone’s feels. It’s only been 5 days, since we decided to split. I’m thinking exactly like you did. What more does she want? We are pretty well off considering the world we live in. It’s just so hard for me to accept.😢 thank you for sharing your experience and life with us.
Thank you so much! God led me here! Divorced after 23 years and I’m suffering with anger, hurt a lot! Coming up on a year out. I’m finding myself but want him to be exposed for his narcism!Not sure how to proceed with that.
Almost ten years no kids makes 40 thousand more.. we both built each other up.. and she secretly divorced me after coming back four times to me. And I put her first and lived together did not know she got divorced and still haven’t said we are divorced
Wow i just went thru this..im 45 yrs old here in texas..my wife cheated on me ..every single word from your mouth hit me with accuracy 100% i love that im not the only one on this planet who felt it. Although sad..im grateful god allowed you to make the video..henrietta Thank you for understanding n opening up..❤🙏…
I thought only me who have been hard through the divorce after almost 15 years of married. After seeing your video and read lots of comments I realize than I’m not alone. Thank you for your experiences.
Dang I can’t even imagine the pain you all went through! GF left me of almost 2 years and I was devastated, still haven’t fully gotten over it, this was 4 months ago. Then I read the comments and listened to this story and I’m like sheesh! I fear that! Good to hear encouragement coming from you all.
NEVER "build" a man don’t share bills ,make sacrifices or waste your youth on a grown man ladies.
Keep your savings make sure he’s head of household paying ALL bills ,keep up your appearance so if he ever leaves simply move on with your savings account and won’t leave you feeling bitter or angry.
My husband left after 36 yrs married. We have 3 children. He came home said he met this woman on a app 2 months ago! ( really ) took his clothes and left. That was 2 months ago. His check still goes direct deposit. He is acting friendly all the sudden….
What a great happiness to me and my relationship I was in relationship for 8 good year’s no sex with my lover so my lover decide to leave me and follow another woman so we break up for 1 month when I came across with this man called *babamama* on facebook I explain everything to him.when he just tell me to wait for 2 hours so I wait after waiting my lover just called me and started apologize to me everything he did so if you need help you can also reach him on his.
Thank you so much for sharing your story!!
I was married for 24 years
I been divorced for one year now four kids!!!it’s been difficult for me
But I am getting better each and every day
It’s been very depressing but I am getting stronger
Just want to say thank you
Your video really help me to give another step forward
Happy new year !!!!
God bless you 😘
I really needed this. Thank you for sharing! 20 years married to my high school sweetheart and he decided he doesn’t want to be with me. I have kids in sports and just began a new career, so I really related to this video.
Thank you for your video. My husband has just told me that he is planning to start the process of divorce after 22 years of marriage because he wants to start his life with a new page. So far I am just crying and feeling like my life is over … I don’t have any family or friends in this country. We have 2 kids and they are everything to me. One is 20 and my second daughter is 12, I am so afraid that I am not going to see her everyday. Your video gave me some hope.
If you got him when you were 13, maybe you got too old for him. He might be ready for another 13 year old girl. That’s not your fault; it’s his.
I don’t know his side of the story. When a women says “I don’t need a man” I’m GTFOH.
I had to saved this video🙏❤ thank you for this
I am going through divorce after 21 years of marriage. I found out his 12 years of double life with his female colleague . I still tried to work but I just couldn’t deal with his continues adultery. I am separated for last 4 months and have been not talking to him last 2 years before I got separate. It is very hard as he was my world and I was nobody to him. I asked for divorce. He hurt me physically, emotionally and verbally and he has no remorse for what he did to me. Now I am 44 and I am lost as I was stay at home mom for 16 years. He asked me to look after kids so I didn’t think about making my career but I started working couple of years back . It s a decent job, I don’t make much but he is hurting me financially, emotionally and every way. I feel very depressed but I don’t have any family. Now I see my kids half the time . It’s feel so hard that he is having good time at the cost of my pain without no remorse for spoiling my life.
I want to know how to deal with this much pain when you feel so broken. I feel like I have nothing left in this life for me. I am trying but still not able to move on . I don’t know how to get myself out of this anger, resentments, depression.
Hi Henrietta… ty for this video. I am 53 I’ve been with my husband for 34 years. I met him when I was 15. I don’t know anything else I feel the same way u felt. I am so unhappy. He continues to disrespect me and accusing me of things that I’m not doing. I’m very scared and I don’t know what to do or where to start.
Glad I never got married glad I don’t got kids
Thank you for you story. I’m in the middle of ending a 21 year relationship and I know it will get better but hearing your story makes my decision easier.
I need to hear this.
Can you do more videos. Place your phone on a stand so we can see all your face. Sit in the middle. You are very pretty and motivating. I would like to see more videos
Ya know.
This is too private.
Why share this with strangers.
God has to be everything. The right man. Jesus is my reason for life. Then my wonderful husband. With the right husband you can do great things. The devil lie to him.
When youve got 5 kids to raise u dont have time to grieve u just live one day at a time and i know your always tired and dont know what day it is sometimes…..u just keep keepin on!
Wow Henrieta!! You are so strong 💪and an amazing example to your children. It’s very hard not to be consumed with hate and depression but your focusing on your children and the positive is going to be the best gift for them and their futures and happiness. They will thank you when they are grown.
I’m having a hard time divorce after 20 years and just trying to figure out how to stop overthinking it it’s so horrible the anxiety is unbearable 🥺
Not trying to place any blame on you, but as a man, I sincerely struggle to understand what drove him to leave a beautiful wife and five kids behind.
This has been so informative and I am sure you have helped so many. 🙏🏾
Thank you so much…it was only three years for me..And my heart is hurting..I never got married however it felt like one..It took me 7 years foe me to even open up to sme1…If you can get threw this i know i can…
Really encouraging strong woman. Well done for finding ur strength after disappointment. Now it’s ur time to shine. GOD bless u and ur kids.
As a man, he wanted some new booty. No disrespect, but that was it. As men, we like to conquer. All other excuses a man will give is all BS.
I don’t know his side of the story. When a women says “I don’t need a man” I’m GTFOH.
We’ve just ended our 20 year relationship, been with him since I was 14, I’m sorry so many of you have experienced this too but I’m also grateful I’m not alone, wow its not easy is it guys 😭 spent most of my life with him 😩 I can do this though
Five kids!! Wow!!
It has been four years but i am still in enormous pain.😔
I am going through a breakup after a 20 year relationship- I don’t know how to move on- I’m so sad! I wake up feeling awful! I really need advise!
Thank you for this video. It really helped me tonight.🙂🙏
I’m just curious about a few things: 1 – Why did he leave after 20 years while you were pregnant? That doesn’t just happen out of the blue AND you saying you don’t know why. Seems like your simply not being forthcoming.
Thank you
Thank you for sharing your story. You have such a sweet soul. You are so positive after being through so much. Keep pushing! He definitely lost a winner.
Love your confidence and altitude.
What a great happiness to me and my relationship I was in relationship for 8 good year’s no sex with my lover so my lover decide to leave me and follow another woman so we break up for 1 month when I came across with this man called *babamama* on facebook I explain everything to him.when he just tell me to wait for 2 hours so I wait after waiting my lover just called me and started apologize to me everything he did so if you need help you can also reach him on his.
Thank you needed this
I’m so happy I found your vid. My wife and I are separating after 15yrs and 3 kids. It’s def not something I want, but I can’t change someone’s feels. It’s only been 5 days, since we decided to split. I’m thinking exactly like you did. What more does she want? We are pretty well off considering the world we live in. It’s just so hard for me to accept.😢 thank you for sharing your experience and life with us.
Thank you so much! God led me here! Divorced after 23 years and I’m suffering with anger, hurt a lot! Coming up on a year out. I’m finding myself but want him to be exposed for his narcism!Not sure how to proceed with that.
Almost ten years no kids makes 40 thousand more.. we both built each other up.. and she secretly divorced me after coming back four times to me. And I put her first and lived together did not know she got divorced and still haven’t said we are divorced
keep up the good work! My marriage ended after 23 years… 3 kids mean to the world to me just destroyed… that you for the support
Wow i just went thru this..im 45 yrs old here in texas..my wife cheated on me ..every single word from your mouth hit me with accuracy 100% i love that im not the only one on this planet who felt it. Although sad..im grateful god allowed you to make the video..henrietta Thank you for understanding n opening up..❤🙏…
You probably cut him off.
I thought only me who have been hard through the divorce after almost 15 years of married. After seeing your video and read lots of comments I realize than I’m not alone. Thank you for your experiences.
Dang I can’t even imagine the pain you all went through! GF left me of almost 2 years and I was devastated, still haven’t fully gotten over it, this was 4 months ago. Then I read the comments and listened to this story and I’m like sheesh! I fear that! Good to hear encouragement coming from you all.
NEVER "build" a man don’t share bills ,make sacrifices or waste your youth on a grown man ladies.
Keep your savings make sure he’s head of household paying ALL bills ,keep up your appearance so if he ever leaves simply move on with your savings account and won’t leave you feeling bitter or angry.
My husband left after 36 yrs married. We have 3 children. He came home said he met this woman on a app 2 months ago! ( really ) took his clothes and left. That was 2 months ago. His check still goes direct deposit. He is acting friendly all the sudden….
Ty for this video. It’s very helpful to me. I just wished you kept vlogging because I didn’t see anymore videos.
Can you leave the kids at home and come over so I can split I?
What a great happiness to me and my relationship I was in relationship for 8 good year’s no sex with my lover so my lover decide to leave me and follow another woman so we break up for 1 month when I came across with this man called *babamama* on facebook I explain everything to him.when he just tell me to wait for 2 hours so I wait after waiting my lover just called me and started apologize to me everything he did so if you need help you can also reach him on his.
Thanks for Sharing your thoughts with us. Everything happen for a reason in life. I love your Courage. Keep it up.
I really needed this today. My husband of 15 years left. Its a struggle.
Some people left a long time ago and only stay for the kids and when the kids reach a certain age they bounce.