DIVORCE GUIDE *for men only* How to NOT Lose your MIND
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Divorced man’s survival guide is something all men going through a break up should hear. Divorce advice for men is generally smoke in mirrors, it is not what will help them through this tough time. When it comes to men’s advice while going through a divorce it is imperative that you are able to get the help you need to not lose your money, your mind and your power.
Steve Mayeda is a Men’s Coach from Austin, TX and is the founder of Austin Men’s Development. He is a BJJ & Wujifa Practitioner and is a Wim Hof enthusiast.
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Hope you doing well now sir. been married for 5 years now ,and two small children whit her ,but the last 3 years i just felt like we drifted apart, beside being parents , and really unhappy and dont felling good in general because of constantly fighting and at best times we have 2 days out of the week where we dont fight its the 3 time i really think of getting a divorce. i work all the time , full time dad after work ,own a brand new car whitout debt in ,and have enough money saved up to buy a good house or apartment .. but ready to leave it all for her and my kids ,and start from zero ,and live in a car or rent a small room for 3-5 years to get myself back on my feet -just to be happy again ,and not just to look happy..
i know marriages is hard as fuck ,any advice ? take care sir (sorry for bad english)
#GUARDINGYOURTEMPLEII 🛡✔
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I carried my ex-wife financially for 20 years. She said many times she never wanted children. Now, she is trying to take 4 of my 6 children. Honestly, I think this is just a plan to make sure I keep a roof over her head. I will get nothing from her, because she has nothing to give me. Btw, I don’t want anything from her, I just want out with my possessions.
Yeah it’s a tough thing to go through women feel they are entitled to everything including the children the property in the money. It’s not right.
I have always suspected my wife was cheating on me. We have been married for 15 years now and its been a smooth ride until last year when she changed and started seeing other men. A friend of mine linked me up with a great hacker Cyber Hack who helped me hack into her phone, I had complete access to her phone right on my device and I could monitor all her activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, her location, call logs, text messages and all. I was left with no other choice.I loved my wife so much and I just dont know why she chose to betray me, I have been a good husband and never for once cheated on her. I tracked her down to a hotel where I found her with another man . You can contact them at cyberhack003 at gmail or Whatsapp +15303784744 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into her phone without even touching her phone.I have enough evidence against my wife now and I am thinking of Filing for divorce. I want advice from men and other women on here, should I give her another chance because of our kids or file for divorce ? We have a 4months old baby.
People will forget what you SAID .People will forget what you DID But they will NEVER forget how you made them FEEL.
How to? Do like any business contract: all terms&conditions of end of contract are written and understand BEFORE u sign the “marriage”.
My AMAZING Story:
Married at age 23 and suffered miserably until age 30 from the marriage.
•Lost all my money from my divorce.
•My X restricted from sex for over 3 years until the divorce
•Fractured my nose and other terrible physical abuse
•0 Empathy in my X towards me
•Would beat me when I was sick
•Always mocked me
•X spread rumours to our entire community (large community), that I molested my own children during the divorce.
•Being the son of a leader of a community, had me stigmatised everywhere
•X stole everything from me during divorce
•All my hard earned money was wired out of my account (Hacked me) the day we separated
•Couldn’t go fight in court because her family were billionaires, and I had nothing.
•She took my 3 precious children for 4 months without letting them talk to me.
•She proved to her entire family that I watched porn during the marriage (while she restricted sex on me for years).
•Lost my Job (dean of Students) because of her rumours.
This list goes on forever.
• DID EVERYTHING FOR HER, BUT IT WAS NEVER ENOUGH!
I survived a deadly stress rash from the divorce which evolved many scary growths all over my body because of the stress.
ALMOST CRACKED A FEW TIMES.
Dozens of sleepless nights.
Fast forward:
2 years later
•Just received a Job as an assistant Principal
•Will be receiving my masters in social work in a few months.
•My Children love me and would do anything for me, and I would do anything for them.
•In Therapy working on the Traumatic experiences
•I am a Loving Father
•Dating very soon
•Helping, caring, and empathising with divorce people.
And much more good in my life.
How did I survive this???
7 simple strategies I did routinely:
1-Keep busy (as hard as it is, do it).
2-“Never” bad mouth your X to anyone except your Therapist
3- Unconditional love to my children
4-“No contact” with the day of our separation.
5-Knowing that I got divorced to have a better life
6- (Most importantly) Find a support team of
7-Self love, Not shame (I am not a bad person, I am a loving man to all)
8- Know it will take time to recover.
Support team:
3 traits
•Empathy
•Experience
•Trusting person.
I was almost dead and today on the path to a wonderful life.
If I could do you could do it!!!
•Love yourself
•Believe you are a seed that has massive potential
•Care for others
•Smile even when it’s hard
•Takes Care of yourself
•Don’t give a crap what people say about you
•Walk with your head up high
•If you feel you need therapy, seek a “good” therapist for “YOU”.
You can do this!!!
(I will post this on many chats because I feel I have an obligation to spread my story, even if it will save one person from crashing).
“WHAT DID NOT DEMOLISH YOU, WILL POLISH YOU”
How do you have a support group when you don’t have friends and long distance family?
Useless video!
I’m a woman just commenting here….. I met the love of my life a year and a half ago. I made a list and he is everything on that list. It was love at first sight, something I have never experienced before. We actually met while I was still in a toxic relationship and he was going through a fresh separation. Throughout the year and a half we were able to support each other to better ourselves and do things right. We knew we both were not ready for a relationship, however, our feelings for each other were undeniable. We both did a lot of personal growth and now we have agreed to go on a pause, because he’s not fully healed yet and his situation is still complicated. On my end, I still have a lot growth I still need to do, for example, learning not to depend on a man.
I’m in a situation now where I’m telling myself.. . if he is the one "he’s worth waiting for"… But how long is too long ? I am giving him 4 months.. is this reasonable? Technically we have been seeing each other for a year and a half now and his wife knows about me. Anyways, I’ve never been in a situation like this and I also don’t want to sabotage this. He is an amazing person and I can totally see myself spend the rest of my life with him…. But how long is too long?
2 years….that sucks
How do I join a group? I’m in Houston.
I have always suspected my wife was cheating on me. We have been married for 15 years now and its been a smooth ride until last year when she changed and started seeing other men. A friend of mine linked me up with a great hacker Cyber Hack who helped me hack into her phone, I had complete access to her phone right on my device and I could monitor all her activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, her location, call logs, text messages and all. I was left with no other choice.I loved my wife so much and I just dont know why she chose to betray me, I have been a good husband and never for once cheated on her. I tracked her down to a hotel where I found her with another man . You can contact them at cyberhack003 at gmail or Whatsapp +15303784744 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into her phone without even touching her phone.I have enough evidence against my wife now and I am thinking of Filing for divorce. I want advice from men and other women on here, should I give her another chance because of our kids or file for divorce ? We have a 4months old baby.
People will forget what you SAID .People will forget what you DID But they will NEVER forget how you made them FEEL.
But what do you do when your ex refuses to participate whatsoever doesn’t follow court orders and your getting stuck flipping the bills and you don’t get to see your kids due to ex stepping in? The anger steps in and becomes frustrating. I feel like I’m about to be wrecked just for playing by the rules and trying to clean up this mess alone. Ugh…
Wife just said she never wanted to see me again. And she’s filing for divorce. Please pray for me
With respect, everybody says two years! I’m 57. It’s been six months. I can’t afford 18 more months I got another longer and be a man about it. You know I’m going to grieve and I’m gonna feel bad but like life is too short to throw down the toilet for 2 years.
Thank you I can finally focus on what I need to do, good vid
Going through a divorce right now, I’m still in shock I don’t think it’s hit me. I’m going to look for an apartment this coming up week.
This quick video really helped me. I was the one who filed for divorce because years of being disrespected, emotionally abused, and felt I was in the marriage by myself. I tried to hang in there.. I prayed and tried to trust God for a change. I could not see any other alternative. I let her keep everything the house, furniture, etc. I did not want sale the house and and change my kids since of normalcy. I just left with my clothes. I still loved her despite the divorce, but I could not take it anymore. After the divorce we would still do things together with the kids and sometimes discuss possibilities of getting back together but I told her that it would take both of us for this to work. She said she is not going to do anything since I was the one who left. I told her BUT why did I leave she just didn’t get it.
To this day I am still recovering financially having to start all over. She told me she has met someone and has future plans. She told me the guy checks everything on her list. He has money, etc. This was a gut punch to me. I guess it’s the fact that I still care and the fact a sacrificed everything for my marriage and now despite how she treated me she is moving on to what seems to be a good situation. I guess I need to find me a men’s group that will help move on. Man it’s difficult, mentally hurts. My apologies for the long message…
I’m disappointed I’d hadn’t seen this divorce instruction manual 2 years ago. Very encouraging, excellent stuff.
This is amazing advice, Steve! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for making this content!
I am an RN and I work with all women. It seems to me frankly that women weather it better than men.When you consider lady 70% of the divorces I guess that explains that and I think they have a better support system.
I am right at the bottom wanting to re build my life. Not be fat , jobless and living in a small room
Good shit
Im here to know how to stop a divorce
I miss him everyday. it’s the worse pain I have ever felt. When he tells me he misses me it breaks me and I cry. The idea that another man will some day live with him everyday is just too much for me.
Infidelity is a very serious issue to deal with and it has become a major threat to most marriages and relationships.I was reluctant at first about finding the truth about my cheating husband but I’m glad I finally took the courage for it and now I believe the saying that “The Truth Will Set You Free” cos I feel better and free now after knowing the truth. I got help from Cyber Hack as he helped cloned my cheating husband’s phone and I got access to all his phone call logs, emails, text messages both deleted texts and also social media chats; whatsApp , Facebook, Instagram without having access to his phone because he is mostly out of town due to the nature of his work , all I provided was his phone number to this wonderful hacker. This was very revealing for me as he’s a serial cheater until I got into his phone .I’m glad to uncover his, lies, secrets and Infidelity. You can contact this great Hacker David via email (cyberhack003@gmail.com) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +15303784744
Just found this for the first time. Good work bro. Going trough it right now. Thank you. Keep going! Fire brother. Fire
Thank you brother I needed to hear this greatly appreciated thank you so much
Right on Steve. Thank you.
I am just getting there, I am worried about what will happen.I was born and raised in in a Christian African family which lead to to ignore my sexuality and getting married to a woman. Now I feel terrible,I have come to the point of acceptance and want to set her free, the discussion is getting stressful and family getting involved. I am confused, I am feeling guilty about this. I am open to comments and advice from men who have been divorced or joining a supportive group.
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I didn’t need the whole scene with the little brat running around playing or the gay porn music but the advice was good.
Thanks for the not help.
Divide and conquer!
Why all the family courts are against man in every country?
The agenda for the global government is to weakening the families, so the population can be controlled easily.
Destroy the father, destroy the family !!!
One Should always be very careful when dealing with a Narc. I’ve always believed in love to cure many things but it has only fed my narc’s enormous ego. it is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that @brandhackers1 on Instagram helped me a lot especially in cloning my husbands phone. i got access to his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone, I’m here in Miami Florida USA and able to access his phone with a cloned app even while he was away in the UK cheating on me. I’m only making this recommendation because of my great experience with them. you can also reach them on WhatsApp on +19163042321 or via Email address on brandhackers1 @gmail . com, Thank me later
2minutes of overproduced shit until you get to the actual content
Dude. Don’t fast talk topics like this. F this video
2 years. That brings a sense of relief.
Sorry, but this is an house husband’s of LA techno bunch of BULLSHITE!
Things went 0-60 in theblast 24hrs and this video calmed me and made me focus on what needs to be down. Thank you sir. And it is true that a idol mind is a devil playground….. you get so lost into it that it tears you apart from the inside……… thanks again tho
Good stuff brotha. Shit just beginning for me
I highly highly highly doubt those two years after divorce will be more stressful than my current marriage. Highly.
22 years. Basically, I decided to not marry. Tell me guys.
*Is this the right choice??*
She is playing me.
I am totally ready. Disappointed but grateful I was given the heads up by another party.
Talk to a Divorce Attorney before even considering marriage. Be prepared to leave the relationship at anytime. Fuck these evil Family Courts.
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The family court system is ruled by a leftist feminist man hating agenda which only wants to put men down and kick them out of the house.