Famed Relationship Therapist Esther Perel Gives Advice on Intimacy, Careers, and Self-Improvement

Famed Relationship Therapist Esther Perel Gives Advice on Intimacy, Careers, and Self-Improvement

In this fascinating session from Summit LA18, famed relationship therapist and bestselling author Esther Perel digs into the three hidden dynamics governing every relationship, explores the self-imprisoning paradox of social media, and lays out why certainty is always the enemy of change.

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  2. Nice video, have been in such a situation and i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i could not let the love of my life go

  3. Sometimes girls are told too they “become” a woman when they fall in love or leave school or get married or become a mother – prove themselves

  4. OMG Esther now I know why I scream loud it’s because I wasn’t heard has a child!!!! It took this long to realize . Esther is the best I adore her!!!

  5. Esther Perel , Thank you for a great presentation that enlightened us with the core issues of our relationships. You have an amazing insight to the dna of issues and also the broad spectrum of human behaviors. We are able to see through many lenses the dynamics of our relationships in many different stages and forms.
    Mentors are very essential and I believe every couple must have one from the commencement of their relationships.
    Every boat sails choppy waters and storms once or more .We need to be better captains and also good swimmers.

  6. That IS fucked up. I’ve lost so many people in my life. Family. Lovers. A child. When I wake up and my woman is in the bed next to me……..fuck the phone. Fuck everything except for that moment when I can roll towards her and ackknowledge and appreciate

  7. I feel like she has just literally saved me during this difficult time and likely will save my relationship too
    .

  8. New to this person people are not supposed to look past obligations not being near one another enough excuse us for being honest as a human first person and one and only person never the right person never will never was never always the only think to socialize discrepancy to communicate not failure moving on the government doesn’t allow but to teach from the family not being in the presence of others be who know not what they are doing that which first comes to mind not to be mistaken having seen before why at all leave a comment and make share privacy as if god matters to be him to be her swearing off of having sexuality all we have to do is make it known the temptation to traject as it were finished in order to listen intently to woman

  9. I was a caregiver to my son and mother, they were both terminally ill from cancer!!! First generation of immigrant parents. It was tough!!! I learned how to manage.

  10. "What do you think is happening?"
    "What do I trigger in you? What do I evoke in you?"
    "I just want to listen and understand what is going on without agreeing with anything." (For more than 3 sentences)

    Practice.

  11. Like I mentioned, mobile phones are the best way to————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————- know if someone is cheating on you. If you go through a cheater’s mobile phone, there will be definite proof of all their activities. You will know for sure. However, cheaters are clever and conscious. If someone is cheating on you, obviously they wouldn’t just give you their phone that easily. And they surely aren’t going to let you check for the phone data whenever you want.Therefore, you need a clever way to get all their phone activity without them ever finding out. I have one such way for you that is smart, efficient, and well hidden, contact cybermicheal1995@gmail.com or Whatsapp on +1 (872)-225-0930 he is the best and trustworthy when it comes to hacking someone or cheating spouse phone without touching their phone
    He also help me few months ago to hack my cheating husband phone without him knowing and got all the evidence I needed
    ,,

  12. I find the less relationships I have in my life, the happier I am. Like when you clean the stuff out of your shed. It’s one less thing you have to deal with and the space has value.

  13. Like I mentioned, mobile phones are the best way to————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————- know if someone is cheating on you. If you go through a cheater’s mobile phone, there will be definite proof of all their activities. You will know for sure. However, cheaters are clever and conscious. If someone is cheating on you, obviously they wouldn’t just give you their phone that easily. And they surely aren’t going to let you check for the phone data whenever you want.Therefore, you need a clever way to get all their phone activity without them ever finding out. I have one such way for you that is smart, efficient, and well hidden, contact cybermicheal1995@gmail.com or Whatsapp on +1 (872)-225-0930 he is the best and trustworthy when it comes to hacking someone or cheating spouse phone without touching their phone
    He also help me few months ago to hack my cheating husband phone without him knowing and got all the evidence I needed
    , ,

  14. I was able to access my girlfriend    —————————————————‐—————————‐‐——————‐——–‐‐‐———-‐-‐——-‐-‐‐-‐–‐-‐—–‐‐-‐—–‐–‐———–‐———————————————————‐‐—————————————————–‐————————————————————————–DM without she knowing. through *mccarolinux@gmail•com or WHATSAPP +1(415)683-1585* who successfully hacked into her call log, text messages when I feel suspicious about her act which eventually comes positive that she is cheating on me…thank you LOIUS💯

  15. I was able to access my girlfriend    —————————————————‐—————————‐‐——————‐——–‐‐‐———-‐-‐——-‐-‐‐-‐–‐-‐—–‐‐-‐—–‐–‐———–‐———————————————————‐‐—————————————————–‐————————————————————————–DM without she knowing. through *mccarolinux@gmail•com or WHATSAPP +1(415)683-1585* who successfully hacked into her call log, text messages when I feel suspicious about her act which eventually comes positive that she is cheating on me…thank you LOIUS💯

  16. WHAT IF… YOU DIE TONIGHT?

    "And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life.
    And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
    The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. 
    Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15)

    Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life.

    "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him 
    should not perish but have everlasting life.
    For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17)

  17. one of those moments when you think that internet is one of the best things happened to you.
    Pure gold of knowledge poured over here.
    Total gratitude for Esther and everyone else involved.

  18. This would’ve been a much more excellent lecture if she had less audience engagement. I’m sure it’s great for the physical audience, but not the 874,000 people watching on YouTube. I found it hard to pay attention with all that.

  19. watching this video and realizing how confused I am about romantic love,
    processing my thoughts out loud:
    1 – look at me. (I’m so damn unattractive. could someone actually be attracted to me?)

    2 – fat, old, frumpty-dumpty: me.

    3 – but then how are beautiful people attracted to unattractive people? (I see this all the time!)

    4 – is attraction about something other than physical looks?

    5 – but I’m in love with a person, and I don’t really even know exactly what they look like… (online love.)

    6 – but they say men are so visual…

    7 – and what about ugly people in beautiful relationships?

    8 – I was crazy about someone once, and yet 100% not physically attracted to them!

    9 – am I pretty?

    10 – what did my love interests passed love interests look like? (could I ever compare?)

    11 – I’m ashamed of who I am.

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