Marriage Advice from a Divorce Lawyer | Divorce Stories Ep 13
It might sound crazy, but in being a divorce lawyer for 2 decades, I’ve learned a lot about why marriages fall apart. So it only makes sense that I share my advice for a healthy marriage. Here are 10 pieces of advice I can give to any married couple or people that are soon to be married.
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Choose with your head, not with your head (or heart)
great content!
As long as women do not behave like a bitch and men do not behave like dogs all marriages will be safe and sadist divorce lawyers will become extinct.
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Moral of the story, don’t get married lol. It’s not necessary in 2022. Eventually nobody will get married 👍💪🇺🇸
If men want to maintain their value, peace, happiness and freedom then never marry. Why bring litigant woman into our house ?
Thank you!
me watching this not cos i intend to marry but to see how strong my parent’s relationship is now. And its true. checks all the boxes mentioned
What about when someone stops doing the work?
Divorce lawyers are the scum of the earth. They literally will destroy a man for money.
Marriage is a construct. Wear a ring, have your own ceremony but realize this men, it’s absolutely not worth it from a legal, financial or emotional standpoint in today’s society. Because men, in the eyes of society, the woman and the law alike, marriage is definitely not about you now, nor in the future regardless of outcome. Be smart, stay strong, chase excellence. Be a fine wine and don’t worry about the pricey pretty bottle of cream it’ always sours quickly
Its sad that these videos dont get alot of views.
Shit, this video makes me don’t wanna get married. So either I bend over backwards to please her or I lose everything in my life? Too high risk, and I’ve invested in Dogecoin
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Al Capone got Syphilis from this type of lifestyle.
Divorce lawyers dont like long lasting marriages. Or else they dont have any customers.
Why do you wear two watches bro
I like what you said about using your brain and not your heart. I’ve been in a long term relationship for just over two years now I’m 18 my partner is 19 and we both graduated high school last year. My question is when is it too early to be looking out for financial issues and issues related to work? Obviously, we’re still young, however, I spend my time working and studying diploma in digital marketing this year, and am studying for a Bachelors degree study next year. My partner didn’t get good enough grades to go to university and currently spends her days sitting around doing nothing. It’s been 3 months since we’ve graduated, am I too young to be looking out for these issues and give my partner more time to figure it out, or is this already a red flag because I feel like I’m losing respect for her?
Good video. But just wondering why you wear two watches
I will only get married if the girl have enough money for us & our future kids. I would be this unselfish towards my future kids. I won’t make my kids suffer in this broken world.
That’s a good 👍
I would put in that top 10 is "forsake all others". Don’t seek needs from other people.
Also useful to know: be aware that your wife will change once she becomes a mother. Her body might remain different after delivery (and that is ok), and certainly her mind and her priorities will change once your baby is born. Embrace that for a good amount of the time, in the first couple of years, the kids will come first and will eat up lots of time and affection. Understand your role and share responsibilities, time and love. At the same time make sure that your wife stays alive as a spouse and a lover and does not get sucked into motherhood completely. Another good advice: never talk bad about your spouse in the presence of others. Criticism is a 2 person issue, not a topic for dinner parties.
𝑶𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒇𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝒂𝒇𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒏’𝒕 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌 𝒐𝒖𝒕 , 𝒐𝒓 𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒃𝒍𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖’𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒖𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖.. 𝑭𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝑫𝒎 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒓 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒅.. 𝑯𝒊𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝑳𝒐𝒖𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝑻𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒎 +𝟒𝟒 𝟕𝟓𝟐𝟎 𝟔𝟒𝟖𝟎𝟖𝟗
the fact that this guy has on 2 watches tells me that he knows something that I don’t
Wow, who would dislike this video?? Great stuff. Thank you
After my divorce I said I need to go with my heart not my head in that, I felt in my first marriage, I felt on paper she’d be a good partner. But something was missing. We didn’t have that deep emotional connection. So I hear what your saying, you need to have a meeting of the minds but you also need to feel like this person is truly in love with you. You have that friendship at the core.
My husband says he hates “liars and sneaky” people. But he doesn’t share everything with me, and doesn’t know what lies by omission means. Either way, he doesn’t work and hasn’t worked in years. Can i leave the marriage and not tell him where I’m going. I dont want to pay him spousal support, he’s a liar and he cheats on me with every waitress at the bars we visit. OR is their CONSEQUENCES for abandoning the relationship? (P.S. we have no joint accounts just a home with a high mortgage- he can’t afford) #Florida
Good advice. You missed the main point – to avoid divorce – #1 Rule – do not get married.
You’ve noticed that he wears two watches right
Dennis: "Choose with you head not with you heart"
Coffee mug: …
1:14 "Choose with your head, not with your heart"… meanwhile the coffee cup.
It’s all well and good dishing out the advice, but what happens when one person has given up on the commitment?
They want out and are already having an affair.
Your dealing with a situation where you cannot control how the other half feels.
This guy has two watches on.
If you want to have a good time you got to have a good watch.
1. Choose logically, "with head, not heart"
2. 1:18 Accept person as they are
3. 1:57 If it can be broken, it can be fixed. Marriage is work.
4. 2:55 Be engaged and present. Don’t "check out". This goes for kids as well
5. 3:42 Sometimes it is about what you DON’T say. Sometimes best not to say something, when it does or will do no good.
6. 4:24 You can only change yourself.
7. 4:57 Life is about balance
8. 5:26 certain tasks should never be delegated. You and your spouse should have topics to relate jointly to.
9. 6:16 Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
10. 6:48 Don’t be afraid to say NO – to everyone else, but your spouse.
3:47 – My two cents on the point Mr Vetrano brings up here: while it is absolutely a good thing to be considerate of your partner and not say pointlessly inflammatory things, simply shutting up and never letting on that you’re upset isn’t necessarily the best way to go about it either. I’ll admit my experience in relationships is strictly limited, but it seems to me much more constructive, rather than bottling up your anger and having it come back to bite you later, to work out where that anger comes from and talk about *that* instead – with a non-judgmental, constructive attitude. This goes double if it’s a frequent recurring issue, as burying your head in the sand is only going to make it worse with time.
Germany actually proposed a law that made marriage a term contract that expires after 5 years. It could be renewed if both parties agreed.
Guess who worked hard to defeat that from becoming law?
There are no rules for women’s behavior. Every since women’s liberation she is a government designated tokan victim. This man or any husband is not allowed to give instructions to women. Under the laws and culture of today, the man has no authority. Trying to take authority over spending habits, child rearing, etc. Is called abuse. Women can make all the rules but men cannot. He is no longer allowed to take authority but he is responsible to pay for everything and blamed for any problems. The clergy, neighbors, and court system will not be caught telling her she is wrong because it is not politically correct
Marriage is like a Tornado: "In the beginning there’s a lot of blowing and sucking, then you lose your house".
Very informative! Thank you for sharing the videos like this. This type of information really makes the viewers better!! With respect from subscriber.
This is good
Pretty brilliant advice. Could be summed up in one phrase: seek to become, not to acquire.
Great advice, practical and constructive
this guy knows what time it is
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Why are you wearing two watch 😂
Literal handclap at the "don’t be afraid to say no" point. Totally agree.
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Great insight!
Great video sir 👍 . It’s way too useful and indeed for me . Thankyou 🙏
Get a vasectomy as young as you legally can do so.