Most Christians Won’t Accept This Teaching on Divorce, But It’s Biblical | Church Gone Wild #12
Divorce is one of the saddest, most painful experiences a human being can experience. No one wins with a divorce. The spouses suffer and the children do as well. There are a lot of teachings about the subject of divorce and remarriage. Many Christians won’t accept what the Bible truly says about the subject. This is what I believe the Bible teaches on this difficult topic. SIGN UP FOR OUR LOGOS MASTERCLASS BELOW!
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Good teachings in your videos, catching up on all that I missed! I’m single and I see it all about being evenly yoked to my mate! It is my hope and prayer that I marry a man of God and death do we part!
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 KJV
And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: [11] But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
One of the two who want to marry know the scripture "light has nothing to darkness" an so on but are willing To go ahead and marry, then what advise or what are the results. Please revert back. Thank
MY EX-WIFE AND I ARE BOTH BELIEVERS, WE DIVORCED RECENTLY. SHAME AND GUILT OVERWHELMED ME AS I KNOW, I FEEL I HAVE NOT PLEASED THE LORD. I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH THIS. WE WERE BOTH FAITHFUL, JUST MISERABLE. I FORGOTTEN THAT JESUS WILL FORGIVE ALL SIN. THE ONLY SIN HE WILL NOT FORGIVE, IS TO REJECT HIM OR TURN FROM HIM UNTIL OUR END. GOD COMES LIKE A THIEF IN THE NIGHT. JESUS FORCES HIMSELF ON NOBODY.
Sir, may the Lord Jesus Christ rebuke you for this teaching, divorce and remarriage are sins, and God will never contradict His word! There are no grounds for divorce, God hates divorce and He said no man should separate what He has brought together. Divorce also leads people to commit remarriage adultery, please repent from this teaching, divorce doesn’t give anyone the freedom to remarry, it just means they are free from being obliged to remain married. Being born again doesn’t give anyone the freedom to remarry because marriage is not a sin, being born again means you repent and become an obedient saint from being a sinner, if you commit wilful sin you will still account for it before God if you don’t stop sinning and repent. Being born again doesn’t mean we are no longer our earthly parent’s children, or parents to our children, so how can being born again mean you’re free to stop being someone’s lawfully wedded spouse before God’s eyes who joined you as one? Lord Jesus Christ said except for reasons of fornication NOT adultery, you’re very crafty and manipulative with words, repent!
Luke 16:18
“Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.”
Matthew 19:6
“Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”
Matthew 19:9
“And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.”
Romans 7:3
“So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.”
My question is about abuse…God said he wants us to live in peace so if a divorce was caused because of abuse can one get remarried???
Adultery is a biblical reason for divorce! God even divorced Israel for adultery. Look it up in the Bible.
Study the Bible and don’t let Christians who don’t know the Bible guilt you for divorcing an adulterous spouse.
Brother Allen, I got married 7 years ago and my wife stayed with me only for 6 months which were always filled with fighting and quarrels for no good reason. All she wanted was a baby and the moment she conceived, she left me till date. Whenever I used to go to her father’s house to keep in touch, I was only gifted with insults.
She never came back except for one one or two days when she used to quarrel with her parents and then she would go back. We were never together. Upon calling her back and even using a lawyer’s notice to call her back, she would threaten me with filing for false domestic violence charges.
Till date, she keeps on yelling at me either to divorce her or to commit suicide. I used to be a Church Pianist but she smashed all my instruments telling me not to play in churches with people she disliked as they used to speak the truth.
I had to quit serving the Lord for 6 years. I had lost all heart. She created enmity between me and every church she knew, always preaching me againt the scriptures telling me to perform between rich people whether they knew God or not. For her, my going to a Biblical church was worse than going to a brothel.
Our marriage actually had a foundation of deception and betrayal. I belong to a born again church and I’m the grandson of a Pastor and the son of an evangelist who all laid their lives for GOD’S purpose. I can’t compromise with the scriptures and true worship while she belonged to a nominal church..just for namesake and a family who practise all pagan rituals including those of Hinduism, Islam and even sorcery.
All they know about church worship is offering candles in front of altars. Their beliefs are confined to just getting a place in tbe church graveyard after they die. There’s no belief in the Power of the Blood of Jesus or Salvation.
Before marrying me, they all had put up a disguise of being a believer and she even got baptized by immersion which she blatantly rejected after marriage. I looked for ways to get her back to the LORD but I never found a woman more inexorable than her.
What’s worse, she let an old boyfriend back into her life, a muslim one and always kept on praising him before me. Now whatever chances were there of her return have gone now. They both behave like husband and wife in front of me till date. Whenever I call her to show her any new house I get to stay, she brings her friend with her, they sleep.under one sheet and she tells me to leave the room.
Even yesterday I went to her place for some family gathering and there I saw them roaming with each other fleeing at the sight of me, with their arms wrapped around each other’s bodies.
She had even brainwashed our son against me. She tried to kill him many times but now it’s in tbe memory of my son that it was me to hurt him.
Now tell me, what kind of believer is she that I should stay with her. It has been 6 and a half years since she has deserted me and being nothing more than a painful thorn in my flesh. All these years she and her father have been blackmailing me in the name of our son.
The bottomline is, all she wants is to stay at her father’s house, enjoy with her boyfriend, have full custody of our son, with all her expenses to be met by me.
What should I do?
I went through this 41 years ago. Got saved and my unsaved wife left. I did everything I could to reconcile and she divorced me. I struggled for a couple years while studying divorce in the bible and came to the same conclusion that you taught in the video. GOD led me to a lady who was in the same situation. We married and GOD has blessed our marriage, testimony, and our home for 39 years. Thank you and GOD bless.
Allen, I finally just watched Mike Winger’s 3 hour long video on divorce and remarriage. Have you seen it? It was QUITE an eye opener and he goes super super deep! His take on this was VERY different, and for the first time, I felt like I could breathe from the suffocation I have constantly been feeling when people teach on this subject. Would you please take a look at it? I respect both of you. I just never heard anyone go so much in depth as he did in that video and would love to know your thoughts..?
Don’t give a Damn what the Bible says about divorce. It’s better to leave than stay and be miserable to almost want to do harm.
You don’t know what your talking about. The only cause for divorce is fornication. Fornication, you marry then find out on your wedding night that your spouse is pregnant(commuted fornication) is not a virgin, etc. That’s it; you have no clue what you’re talking about. This what happens when you don’t use the KJ; you believe your smarter than it, and that you know better. The term used are for a reason. It explains what it means. Compare scripture to scripture.
Marriage requires work, it is up and down. I know, married 50 years.
One scenario wasn’t mentioned. Once you are a believer. You fall away. You go through a divorce. Then come back to Christ. I’ve been told if you “knew better” you have to divorce because you are held accountable for what you knew. But if you didn’t know then you can remarry.
I understand, but what is someone who is only 28 years old supposed to do if the man they thought they were marrying became someone totally different after marriage and therefore parted ways due to extreme conflict of interest. Is the innocent party who tried to remain faithful in spite of the conflict supposed to just toil the earth for the rest of their days as a lonely divorced person? What if there was no infidelity involved, the the spouse was extremely difficult to deal with following marriage and chose to leave. Is the innocent party allowed to move on and find someone new?
Your a false mailman u just lost a subscriber. God says what he said it’s not about what u think . Go repent
In the case of a believer who knowing marries a non believer then what does the scripture advise in case. Please advise, now a days we see alot of such couples adamant to marry. How should we help them…
Luke 16:18 KJV
Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
Whatever, silly Christians. Giselle’s available!
i have always read the scriptures exactly how you just stated them. I don’t understand the views for those that say nothing is grounds for divorce and remarriage. its seems very clear to me. Thank you for this video
So, if you are saved, and after that, you sin once, at any time, for any reason, you’re toast? I think God will forgive our sins. It doesn’t enable you to keep sinning, but the Holy Spirit keeps working to perfect us.
The Bible says "Because of the hardness of the heart"
Adultery is a sin you can be stoned for ! Don’t cheat ! Just break up! not violently, or badly RESPECTFULLY
I made a nice comment on this thread after listening to the message and realized that my husband and I are both considered safe to remarry. Then I had people on here that obviously didn’t listen to your message and accuse me of judging when they are the ones in fact judging me. So I deleted my comment. I don’t need you so called Christians unjustly judging me. I’m a born again Christian. It seems to me like there are really very few. Because God doesn’t want us picking at people for no reason and that’s what you all do to me. How come no one else’s comment gets poked fun of except mine. I actually no the answer to this so don’t bother replying
80% of divorces are instigated by the wife……Women have become entitled and selfish….
But the Bible also say" if the unbelievable departs llet them depart but stay single n if you marry again you are a adulter.
1 Corinthians 7:11 KJV
[11] But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. YOUR OPINION IS NOT ABOVE THE WORD!
I grew up in the Southern Baptist church and had a skewed perspective on how submission works and once married always married no matter what happens in the marriage. So, I got married at 19, 1995, and in four years my marriage started turning for the worst. We walked away from the church and started living of the world. Eventually, because of bringing too many worldly things into our marriage it ended. I joined a study, Divorce Care, which helped me forgive and reconcile in my heart with my ex and with God. God also showed me the scripture in Mark 10:9 & Matt 19:6, if God puts it together then nothing can separate it but if God never blessed the union then it will and can be separated. He showed me, He never blew my marriage because it was what I wanted and I didn’t go to Him about it. He showed me that it could have worked if both of us wanted it too but because he didn’t then God released me and gave me peace about it. Thank you for this message. I enjoy listening to your videos.
Great closing!
What about a believing spouse who leaves and still want a divorce despite claiming to be a Christian?☹
She has a lot of mental health issues and struggled with guilt from her past, and it finally drove us to divorce. I initiated it, but have tried to reconcile, and she just doesn’t want to. What am I to do?
Can’t believe you are doubling down on divorce and remarriage. False information to people
Unbelievable
I personally believe there is also Biblical grounds for divorce in case of abuse. "And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her…" "Willing to live with her" means live with her as with wife, not as with victim. If husband beats his wife, his actions shows that he doesn’t want to live with her, even if he claims he is willing to live. Willing to live together means normal relationship for husband and wife, not beating and abusing. Some abusers don’t let go their victims just because they need somebody to abuse.
Abuse and adultery in marriage is the sin, divorce because of these things is better than to be living in a marriage of hurt, pain and being a prisoner
Nothing in the scriptures says if an unbeliver gets divorced she or him is free to get remarried your opinion doesn’t count,
Great teaching and many great comments. You have encouraged me greatly. God bless you all.
It’s been such a burden on me,Knowing God’s word and goin against it.There is bo justification I won’t even try,But God knws how much I tried and hw knws if I was sincere,Because even i Ask myself if I was in the times when I prayed for our marriage.All the what ifs,Now In a new relationship,I wait on that Day,Because only He knows the secrets of the Hearts,Only he knws y he Allowed it to happen and not canceled it like he did B4.
I don’t know will never be married.who wants me.
Divorce is very painful because it happened to me, my ex wife wanted out I tried to convince her to stay and work it out she declined and my life was turned upside down. I was stressed to the max and on top of that, losing my father around the same time coping with his death and being divorced which I never wanted and now I’m going through a healing process from my heart being broken twice my ex wife and my father’s death keep me lifted up in prayer.
7:00 "The Bible does not support divorcing because of your partner’s affair. However, if you decide to do so, the best you can do to honor God it’s either to stay single for the rest of your life, or to reconcile with your partner at some point in the future."
This shows an approach and commitment to marriage that is very different compared to non religious people
the bible says , whom i joined together let no man put asunder or seperate
Some of Your interpretations are wrong
Absolutely great content!!!! Thank you!
My spouse did not left me, but caused me to leave, because we were living in his apartment, so he forced me to move out. I waited few years, but he still did not want to take me back. He also did not want to divorce, because we married in another country and in his country he did not register marriage certificate, so he said he is not married in his country.
What if they are both believers but one is not that good of a parent and doesn’t actively attempt to “step up” to their duties according to the word??? Should the spouse forgive them and make attempts their entire life while being unhappy and stay married even though it’s negatively affecting their children mentally and spiritually?
Jesus: Anyone who divorces his wife and remarries commits adultery, and forces his wife to commit adultery. Likewise anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
The Disciples: Perhaps it’s better not to marry.
Jesus: This is a hard saying, but to those with ears let them hear it.
End of story. Marriage is for a lifetime. The only way to remarry is if your spouse has died. That’s it. Other than that there is no remarriage no matter the ‘legality’ of it from a pagan societies stand point. Anything else is adultery, and that’s LIVING IN SIN. If you live in sin and die in it then you didn’t repent from your sin. If you didn’t turn away from your sin you practiced and lived in lawlessness. If you did that YOU WILL HEAR THE WORDS…… "Depart from me you who practice lawlessness. I never knew you."
Rejoice rest in the good news ⚘ Okay bye
Well some married is not workable bcoz the husband or a wife is abusive physically and emotionally so how you going to stay in married life when ur partner is Impossible even ur a believer or not.
I have the same belief as you brother Allen! I never wanted a divorce but my ex wife couldn’t stop cheating on me with several men behind my back. I decided to end the marriage due to her repeated cheating and unfaithfulness. I was heart breaking experience and very painful that left me scarred for many years. Although it caused me a lot emotionally and financially, the experience got me even closer to my ABBA Jesus Christ and his love. Jesus healed my wounds and I was able to get married to a wonderful woman in my life.
Thank you for that wonderful teaching Allen! You Rock man!