What's Okay Sexually in Marriage? | Christian Sex Therapy

What's Okay Sexually in Marriage? | Christian Sex Therapy

What are acceptable things to do sexually in marriage? Are there certain things that should be avoided in the bedroom? On a recent episode of #MyCounselorLIVE, Christian Sex Therapist Josh Spurlock responded to the following question: “In sexual intimacy between a husband and a wife,Β how does a couple figure out what are acceptable sexual things to do together and what are sinful? There are things we might want to do but are unsure if they are pure or not.”

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13 Comments

  1. Oral Sex is A SINFUL ACT! It doesn’t matter whether you consent or not. God created each of our body parts to serve for a purpose. The male/female reproductive organs were created for the SOLE PURPOSE of reproduction. Yes, God has given us the benefits of having pleasure during intercourse, however sex is/was strictly for REPRODUCTION! You CANNOT reproduce by engaging in oral sex. In fact, it isn’t sex by God’s standard! Mankind has created this act called "Oral/Anal Sex" to bring about more pleasure for the flesh.

    SEX within the confinements of marriage is God’s sacred standard. God isn’t pleased with men inserting their organs into a person’s MOUTH and other places, nor is He pleased with a women the same. God doesn’t like when we waste our bodily fluids that He created to be used for the sole purpose of reproduction. This is why MASTURBATION is also a sin! Remember Genesis 38:8-10…Onan, would waste the semen on the ground, so as not to give offspring to his brother. And what he did was wicked in the sight of the Lord, and he put him to death also.

    We must be careful not to defile what God has already purposed our body parts for. Men are NOT to place their reproductive organ in anything other than a women’s reproductive organ, and women are not to place anything in their reproductive organ other than the male’s reproductive organ. This forbids Anal/Oral Sex of ANY kind. ALL OF IT IS PERVERTED! Satan is cunning and strategizes to pervert anything God has created to be beautiful.

    Bottom line, A key is made for a lock, AND NOTHING ELSE!

  2. I think anal is unclean, for straights and gays. It is an unclean, unatural act. It can open people up to unclean spirits. Do what you will, but I feel 100% what I am saying is true and right.

  3. Lets first remember, God is HOLY. God is PURE, God is love. His law is written on our hearts. I believe we truly know whats right and wrong, clean and unclean.There may not be a specific scripture on "Right way", but there are on scriptures on "Wrong"
    and if God condemns certain activities in the "world" he is still
    "No respecter of persons" in a marriage bed. The very thing gays are accused of doing wrong also adulterers, fornicators…is what everybody should "get".
    Judge not lest you be judged..don’t be a sexual hypocrite.

  4. He needs to get more specific. The only practice he specifically addresses is swinging, which obviously is sinful, even for Christian couples.

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